If you feel stressed, remember it is in your control not to overreact to the situations you find yourself in. If you were an outsider looking in how would you feel about the situation or how will you view things one year or five years from now. Thinking in these terms will help you to reconsider your viewpoints.
Don't worry about how fast you are moving. Focus simply on the act of moving forward. If you pressure yourself for speedy progress, it is far more likely that you will burn out and give up. Instead, take deliberate steps and appreciate the journey. The only thing you should fear is being completely stagnant.
You can contribute to a more loving and fulfilling relationship with your partner by making an effort to clearly state your specific needs and expectations as they relate to showing appreciation for one another. Yes, you love your partner dearly, but you do not share the same brain. He or she should not have to guess when it comes to your wants and needs. In fact, this concept can be readily applied to your work and family relationships as well.